this weekend we got down on paper the things we were splitting up, something i can take to the lawyer for the separation agreement.
Some things we agree on that won’t be put down, like books and CDs and cats, other things like the exercise bike were negotiated over.
then i went over to hang out with some friends. aside from me and j, in the course of the last few years in our pool of friends, allegiances have shifted, alliances have formed, boundaries have been drawn and redrawn based on internal and external relationships.
I may be wrong but i sense another fissure forming.