Baby need a new pair of shoes

my wife has a pair of shoes that I don’t like. they look like ballet shoes, or those black patent leather shoes baby girls wear w/ the white ruffle socks. and she wears them with this long purple skirt. I hate those shoes. she looks like she is about to channel Julie Andrews from the Sound of Music and spin in the middle of the room. it’s not like she doesn’t have 12 pair of black shoes. I really hate those shoes. I stopped wearing a striped shirt I had because she said I looked like a square dance caller. where is the compromise? She wants to wear this outfit to a wedding tomorrow. If I hide one, I will be in the wrong, right? damn shoes.